Merrill Gardens

Our family had an in person tour and we were disappointed - the tour got off to a wrong start and just had a bad impression

You people must be delusional. The food you serve is generally not eatable. Your maintenance is going down hill. The value of your product is sorely lacking. What you purport to be and what you deliver is polar opposite.

Mom has lived in this community for over a year now. The community has gone down hill, a lot of the managers have come and gone. We loved the activities, but they have gone down hill too. The movie theater is no longer offering free popcorn and snacks when we first got here, matter of fact, they haven't offered snack for over 8 months now. Always an excuse from the Executive Director and the Assistant Executive Director. We had to evacuate the building a few months back do to a staff member calling in a bomb threat. How are the management team venting the people working at this community? Now with the COVID19, and we no social life in this community, don't see any cleaning going on in this community. We had more cleaning when we had the bad stomach virus that closed our community to visitors for over 4 weeks. When this COVID19 is over, we are leaving this community. Just because this community is nice, doesn't mean that this is the ideal community for your loved ones, it's not for us.

Over time the energy within Arbour Square disappears. When we first toured this community about a year ago and the first couple of months, the energy within Arbour Square was great. The staff was very fast with answering my Mom’s call button. But over time the response time has been longer and past the so called “5 minute” window. The movie theater, the bar, rooftop deck wow us. But, it seems that that is catering to the Independent people who live here more than my Mom who lives in the assisted living part. I want Mom to go to the diner and the regular restaurant for meals, but the nursing staff (not really nurses - only one shift of an actual LPN on duty and weekends - Never), only take Mom to the 2nd floor dining room. When my Brother or I take her down to those restaurants, she tells us the next day of the other residents who mock her cause she’s in the assisted living part of the community. If your loved one needs assisted living, we would not recommend.

Fig Garden advertises as “pet friendly”...don’t believe it !! Absolutely zero provisions for pets, unless you keep them in your room at all times. Also, general maintenance is sadly lacking, from dirty exterior and windows to non-functional exterior lighting. Menus are often misleading, with some items not available and/or short quantities. Management staff is office-bound, and rarely makes rounds. Can you make it work ??? Yes, but you have to push yourself constantly to make it pleasant.

Since being under new management this place has gone down hill. Mom has roaches the they can't seem to get rid of. (Do not think they are even trying) The food was good at one time but now it's awful. The management there doesn't seem to care about the residents. Price is going g up and the amenities are getting less and less. I would steer clear if you have other options. The staff that does the daily work (not management and office staff) are just amazing the way they treat the residents. My mom loves them and I do too for looking after my mom and being so caring and sweet to her. They all deserve raises.

The caregivers are amazing. The apartments are nice. Management is really nice. The food is horrific and should not be apart of the monthly cost. The management is not on site over night. The cost are very high and go up 5% yearly, it's outrageous! These are seniors who do not have a income any more. Rent should not be triple what it would cost for a mortgage.

My first hand experience is I would not recommend that anyone place a loved one in this facility. If I could get the balance of my money back from them I would bring my mother home today. This facility claims to be "assisted", but other than meals, making beds and administering medications I don't see any "assistance"!!! I talked with them prior to putting my mother in their facility and told them specifically what she needed assistance with: help with putting the batteries in her hearing aids and putting them in her ears correctly and then make sure she takes them out at night and completely remove the batteries (they last a lot longer this way) in the evening; assistance with making sure she removes her dentures and properly cleans them and her oral hygiene; some assistance with her clothing to make sure it matches and assistance with her bathing. The reason we put her in their care for a month was so that we could have a break after having her 24/7 for 2 years and we needed some time to recoup, regroup and unwind. Caring for a loved on with Dementia is not easy. I requested that she see the physical therapist and occupational therapist for help with walking gait, etc,. Two weeks later I am told they need a Dr.s order for this. She was bathing herself and couldn't get out of the tub and was screaming for help and when help arrived she fell and said she was having chest pains and her leg hurt so I told them to send her to ER which is maybe a block away and I would meet them there. No one accompanied her to the ER and she was confused, alone and scared when the hospital staff allowed me to with her. When I first got to ER I had inquired about her and wanted to make sure she was registered and they didn't know she was there---only that ambulance had brought in a resident of The Gardens. Once the hospital determined that she had no injuries and that she was not having a heart attack I took her back to The Gardens and other than ask for her discharge papers no inquired about her. I made sure she had dinner, got her ready for bed and left. 2 days later she still had the id bracelet from the ER still on her wrist irritating her skin and when I asked for a pair of scissors was told to leave it on as they through it was a door alarm bracelet which she had never been provided. If they had been "assisting" her with anything you think that someone would have noticed this. The toilet in her bathroom rocks from side to side and is so loose you can turn it to the side, there is no shower chair for this 89 year old to sit on in the tub/shower, the water is way too hot for a facility that has patients this old that could scald themselves. When the director asked me this morning how things were going the above is exactly what I told her. I also told her that I would not put my mother back into their facility nor would I recommend it to anyone else. Maybe I am out of line, but I expected more from a facility that is "assisted"living than providing 3 meals, meds and a clean bed. Too my knowledge, she was never taken out on any of the "trips" in the Van that I was told were weekly as she has dementia and didn't realize she needed to sign up for them. The only activities that I knew were going on were daily Bingo games and exercise, Every time I went up there the main lobby hall was lined with residents in wheelchairs, walkers and sitting on the Love seats and chairs waiting for time for the next meal.

My parent lived at the Merrill Gardens memory care house for over a year. She started going downhill, and was sent to the hospital where she remained until another placement was finally found. I did not appreciate the way the incident was handled. It was disrespectful and the administration was not helpful at all. My parent was overlooked in many incidents; Merrill Gardens claims to help find appropriate new placements for folks who can't live there anymore. But excuses of staff shortages, and other excuses were not acceptable. I would not recommend this facility to anyone.

RESIDENTS ARE EXPECTED TO PAY STAFF'S CHRISTMAS BONUSES We liked the facility until we received a letter from the facility requesting money so that the staff could receive Christmas bonuses. I have never heard of such a practice. Imagine movie theaters asking for "donations" so that their employees can get extra cash for Christmas. It is an absolutely ludicrous practice and I am worried that if my parent does not feed Legacy more money (on top of the 52 THOUSAND/year) that her level of care may be affected.

I lived there for three months and did not like it at all. In my opinion, there were no activities to speak of and the atmosphere was cold. There was a monthly drawing of names to sign up for bus trips. If the trips were popular, there was a chance they would be booked up. I had to pay $1000.00 up front to get in. It was an expensive boring three months.

*Meals were terrible *A resident was verbally attacked for complaining about the quality of the meal during mealtime in front of other residents. *Wait time to be serve meals was disgraceful for the residents because they were frequently short of help. My parents chose to return to their apt without eating because of the long wait for service. *Housekeeping was terrible. Apartment floors were not mopped on regular basis. *Facility exterior security/safety lights were not fixed for the duration my parents were there (1 year). *Landscaping was nicely done at the front of the facility but the east side area was neglected. *Window screen was missing from the time my parents moved up until they moved out in spite of reminding manager and maintenance staff on several occasions. *Balcony was filthy and so were the windows. *East side 2nd floor exit door lock mechanism was not fixed for several weeks even after my repeated complaints *My parents' rent increase by $250.00 after 1 year. When I informed the manager that my parents were moving out, the rent increase was changed to $25.00.

I don’t even work here and I could still tell something was seriously off just from visiting family. If it’s this obvious to outsiders, I can’t imagine how bad it is behind closed doors. The way staff are treated is honestly disturbing. You can feel the tension the second you walk in. At one point, I was told that most of the kitchen staff had either quit or "being fired", which says everything you need to know about how this place is run. Management is very unprofessional. There’s constant drama, and somehow residents are being pulled into it, which is entirely inappropriate. This is supposed to be a place where people feel comfortable and cared for, not like they’re stuck in the middle of workplace issues. And [Name Removed],she may come across as nice at first, but it quickly feels forced. There’s a clear difference between the front that’s put on and what’s actually going on underneath. It doesn’t take long to see through it. The environment feels disorganized, negative, and uncomfortable.

Terrible experience for memory care Our experience at Truewood Memory Care was a nightmare of mismanagement and medical disregard. We moved my father here in late [date removed], and within the first week started looking for a new facility. We started here because they had no wait list. Issues: 1. Lack of Staff Training: Despite being a specialized memory care unit, the staff seemed untrained in dementia behaviors. They labeled typical symptoms like agitation, talking loudly, not following directions, or being easily distracted when someone is talking as "aggression." Instead of utilizing prescribed medications or redirection techniques, staff called the police on my agitated father. 2. Safety & Communication Failures: My father suffered two falls in the first week that led them to send him to the ER. He lived with me 3 years prior to going to this facility and never needed ER care or police escalation. After the second fall, he was in the ER and no one notified our family. We are moving

Went to see the memory care with a friend visiting mom, loud smelly and unorganized. I would never put a loved one here and I saw something’s that should be reported to someone in charge, care ppl on phones and ignoring residents, who runs this dump?

Last summer ([date removed]) Merrill Gardens Anthem interviewed my dad for about 5 minutes or so and declined him to their memory care unit (saying he "didn't meet their criteria") to live there and then interviewed my step mom for 30 minutes and accepted her into assisted living. Since then, they have been separated and in a state of decline in separate states. My stepmom calls me regularly in the evenings lonely and crying that she misses my dad horribly and my dad wanders around asking if anyone has seen his beloved wife. It's the worst possible ending scenario for a couple who have been married for 33+ years...I called last week to try to start piecing together what the criteria was and was told at first that "they didn't keep those records." After I pressed further the lady who interviewed him said she could try to pull them from corporate. No word yet...it makes one wonder...

The admin staff was more concerned with filling an empty bed than caring for my mom. They need to be more cognizant that new residents WILL BE disoriented and need more help than long term residents. This facility refused to provide that.

I rate it a zero. Memory care unit does not have enough caregivers. My husband is in a Brightstar Care Home group home now and is receiving wonderful care. He had many falls at Truewood. I saw many issues there with the patients. Also most of the people are not friendly. Food was terrible. I definitely do not recommend.

1 on all. We had bad experience. They are NOT equipped or trained for memory care /dementia

My brother was ready to move in , flights were booked, hotel was booked, rental car was booked all left was to order furniture then I got a call saying they could not take my brother he needed to much care. My brother is doing amazing, he is self sufficient and making friends. He gets his meds twice a day and that’s all. I will say [name removed] was fantastic, she made you feel like moving into Merrill Gardens, they are lucky to have her.